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entertairner24 asked:

I want to do films and photo-shots, any ideas what I need to do!?

Contact the companies you want to work for. They will often have ways to submit an application. I myself am not in porn. Well not professional porn though my editing does get better and better. My husband is the one that’s done it but he was approached by the owner of the company at the time.

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Anonymous asked:

Thank you for the advice. As long as I stay true to myself I shouldn't worry about what others think of me. You have been a great help. Thank you. :-)

Always happy to provide suggestions or insight. I try to avoid giving advice. I don’t know what you should do with your life and I also know that most people tend to ask for advice and then completely ignore it because they were always going to do what they wanted anyone. It’s just human nature. We ask for advice hoping to reinforce a way we think or feel not to deter.

So thank you for appreciating my words. Remember though, I may have no clue what I’m talking about and be completely wrong* so reflect and make the best decisions for you.

*The likelihood of me being wrong is next to nothing. I have insanely accurate insight into human nature and particularly relationships. This is meant to be a disclaimer only. Please continue believing in my perfection. I know I will.

sdchub-deactivated20140608 asked:

Thank you for posting the response about you and Venicecub I'm not sure why it posted under anonymous. I'm still hoping things work out for me and my guy. Sounds like he and I may have a similar beginning only we haven't fucked yet. We have had a hot make out session with some heavy petting but nothing furthers yet. He's on my mind 24/7 and he's the first thing and the last thing I think about:-)

First let me start off by saying that I love love. I mean it’s amazing and it’s the reason we were all put on this earth. I do offer a word of caution though. 

SEX     LOVE     INFATUATION

Where do you fall in these 3 categories? Knowing what stage you may be in will be incredibly beneficial to maintaining open communication and avoiding unnecessary problems as the relationship evolves. 

For example when I first met my guy it was SEX. SEX SEX SEX. YES! FUCK ME! BREED ME! SEX. It wasn’t until we got through some of the “What do you want to do?” “I dunno” ” Let’s FUCK” that we started to really get to know each other. Keep in mind that it is not necessary to tie emotion to sex and it is often dangerous. I’m not saying that sex can’t be a beautiful expression of love, I’m just saying that it’s unlikely to be that if it’s in a bathroom stall or backseat. Being told that sex an emotional act is a societal thing not an innate thing.

Infatuation can come before or after sex. For me it usually came after because I guess I was kind of … um … friendly … with my mouth … and my butt. Then it turned out that the guy pounding me was kinda cool so we would hang out before or after the pounding and get to know each other. Most of the time this ended up creating some of my best friends today.

Love creeps up on you. It’s not blinding. It’s not loud. It’s not flashy. Most people get infatuation and love mixed up because what they show in the movies and is commonly thought of as love is this big emotional crescendo. Love is subtle, that’s what makes it so penetrating. It’s deeper and more significant and it doesn’t hit you in the head with giddiness it hits you in the heart with contentment. Love takes time, understanding, patience, forgiveness, and most importantly vulnerability.

I would never tell someone how to feel or that what they feel is wrong. I do however hope that everyone truly examines their feelings and don’t take them at face value. Asking someone else to understand you without understanding yourself is a tall order. It goes along the lines of you can’t love someone without loving yourself first but I’ll save that for another rant.

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Anonymous asked:

Tell us what high school was like being gay. Did you fool around with anyone from high school?

So I went to Private Christian schools from 7th-12th grade. I was definitely not open about being gay. I had crushes on teachers fairly often and by 16 was exploring with men. Inside of school the only openly gay kid got kicked out so I was even less likely to express myself. I dated the girls that the other boys wanted. Not because I wanted them but because I just thought that if they were desirable to others it made sense. Of course all the girls loved me because I was so respectful and chivalrous although one of them dumped me for not fucking her. I did end up hookin up with one other person in high school. I was 17 and I think he was 15. He was the only other gay kid I knew and we did a little cock sucking and I tried to let him fuck me once. It didn’t work out amazing. For a long time I never fucked around with anyone younger than me again. Experience counts for a lot with me.

High school was lame. I do however wish I knew then what I know about how none of it matters and that even friends you make in HS rarely continue being friends because the friendship was situational. I believe I could dominate if I were able to go through it again. :)

slimchaser asked:

Hi from Belgium :) A while ago I asked for advice on accepting myself for being gay and coming out. I just want to thank you! Thanks to your advice i accepted myself and came out right away. It was the best decision of my life. I also met an amazing guy and we are totally in love (his name is michael to :p). Thank you, if it wasn´t for your answers to my questions this would´t have happend.

Thanks so much for letting me know how everything worked out. I am so glad that it turned out positively and congrats on exploring your first relationship. I’m just glad that you asked and that I was able to provide any kind of support.

That being said I would like to go ahead and take credit for all of your happiness because the megalomaniac in me can’t help himself.

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